This and That #1

When we first met,

I knew there was something about you.

We kept on meeting,

unplanned and unarranged.

I invited you over for the first time,

we started talking and our interest in each other increased.

You took me out to dinner,

we both saw potential.

We swam in my backyard,

and shyness was present in both of us.

Talking under the stars,

we built an unexpected emotional connection.

Our first kiss,

and something told me that we would last forever.


🌸More support and less judgment

🌸More love and less hate

🌸More ambition and less procrastination

🌸More truth and less lies

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I have a lot to say

Though I’ll try to keep it short and sweet

You make time for me every day

Loving you is a personal treat

You make me feel loved at my lowest

You are my best friend, probably my only true friend

You treat me like a Queen even when I don’t deserve it

We are the one thing I don’t ever want to see end

I know we will prosper and accomplish great things

We will keep on proving all the naysayers wrong

We will cherish the precious moments that life brings

Our relationship is diamond strong

I want to spend a lifetime together

It is you and I forever

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So my Pinterest gave me some very random pictures yesterday and these stood out, I thought they were worth sharing💜

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I will keep pushing myself

I have goals to complete and doubts to burn

dreams to achieve and fears to crush

I won’t hold back any longer

I won’t allow myself to live in my comfort zone anymore

I’ll push procrastination right out the door

This much is very clear, I am destined for great things

It’s time I start acting like it


Random 6 word challenge

🌸I admire you, I truly do

🌸You didn’t even notice me leave

🌸I will never want you back

🌸I want our first kiss again

🌸We are stronger when working together

🌸Hold me like you used to


I know this was a very random post, hope you found something to enjoy. If you did or didn’t, let me know. Thanks for reading and have a blessed day❤

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Your guide to have more willpower

Defining willpower

According to most psychological scientists, willpower can be defined as: The ability to delay gratification, resisting short-term temptations in order to meet long-term goals. The capacity to override an unwanted thought, feeling, or impulse

What you need to know about willpower: The psychological science of self-control – American Psychological Association

Why should we have willpower?

Willpower can and should be strengthened. I see willpower as the same thing as self-discipline. We should lead a disciplined life to achieve our goals and keep up with high standards.

We should learn to push ourselves. To step outside of our comfort zone. To do the things we don’t want to when we know it will benefit us in some way by doing it.

Their lies power in doing one thing completely, with a 100% effort. With complete willpower. How you do one thing is how you do everything, meaning that if you delay something small or a simple task, do it half or complain about it, how are you expecting not to take that same half effort and complaints with you when it comes to bigger tasks and priorities.

Do the small things with total willpower and it will be transferred to how you handle the rest of your goals.

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Habits to have more willpower

We use willpower over and over again and eventually, we make it a habit

One simple task I want you to do first thing in the morning when you get out of bed is to make the bed. Don’t just lazily throw the covers close and put the pillow in place. Make sure the duvets are smooth and pulled on correctly. Put in some effort in making your bed. Do this every single day and notice the difference it can make on the rest of your day and how you take on tasks.

Exercise. As simple as that. Schedule a 5-60 minute workout at least twice a weak. When it is time to exercise, don’t procrastinate. Just go do it.

Focus on one task at a time. Emerce yourself into doing one task until it’s done. Don’t have three different things to do and try to multitask, it will take more time and energy than needed.

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Create a Reward System. Every time you completed a goal and did so fully, reward yourself with something small.

Set realistic and attainable goals. Ever heard of SMART goals?

When taking on a goal/task, use Positive self-talk, Affirmations, and Encouraging words and motivate yourself and just do it. Do it for you. Set new standards of what kind of person you are and be that person, improve that person every single day. Be the best version of you, for you.

Stick to your plan, nothing stops willpower like changing your goals and plans for no actual good reason. If you said you were going to do this at this time, go do it! It will strengthen your willpower. By changing your plan unnecessarily, you are telling your brain that it is okay to procrastinate and willpower by now has already packed its bags.

This may seem obvious but get enough sleep. Your willpower will be very low when you are tired. Unless you are like me, that at a certain stage of tiredness you get energized and more focused. Just don’t overdo it.

Get up early, has improved my willpower tremendously, I am more awake, more aware, had just the right amount of sleep, and am ready to take on the day fully.

Define and remember your ‘Why’ it’s important to know why you want to have more willpower, why you want to complete this task, why did you start in the first place. The deeper your why is rooted the easier it gets to have more willpower.

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Just one last quote before I say goodbye😉


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Hope you have an amazing and blessed day with the willpower to complete your goals and achieve your dreams.

Much love & abundance

karlien09👣❤

New year resolutions

New Year’s resolution is a tradition, most common in the Western Hemisphere but also found in the Eastern Hemisphere, in which a person resolves to continue good practices, change an undesired trait or behavior, to accomplish a personal goal, or otherwise improve their life. ~Wikipedia

My new year resolutions are usually habits that I want to form.

Do you have any goals for next year? How do you plan on achieving them? Are you starting on the first day of 2021?

I have made tons of new year resolutions before and it all became goals that were left behind, but I believe my resolutions for next year will be different for one reason. I discovered micro habits.

minimal motivation

What Is A Micro HabitMicro habits are an action that requires minimal motivation or effort to complete. The idea is over time; a micro habit will slowly build on top of itself and result in something significant.May 17, 2017

Micro-Habits Changed My Life | Hacker Noon

Microhabits are small enough that they take less than two minutes. They can be practiced every day and can completely change our circumstance.

21 Micro Habits To Boost Your Day – Alessio Bresciani

Instead of making immediate big daily goals, you can work yourself up to them by breaking them down so that you have no excuse to complete the goals.

Example 1:

Big goal/habit- write 2 500 words a day

Micro habit/goals- write 50 words day 1-3… 100 words day 4-6… 250 words day 7-10, etc.

Do you see the difference? Instead of going strong with 3 000 words a day you build yourself up to that.

Example 2:

Let’s say you want to exercise 1 hour 4 times a weak.

You can start by doing 5-10 minutes of exercise 2 times a weak. Then the next weak you exercise 10-20 minutes three times a weak, etc.

The reason for building yourself up to the big goal instead of immediately indulging yourself in it is because if you do that you will get tired and unmotivated and your mind will make excuse after excuse not to complete the goal. Before you know it, the habit you were trying to build is long forgotten and given up on.

Whereas you start with a micro habit, in other words, start small, you make it easy for yourself to complete the goal without hesitation. A habit is being built and you can slowly take on more. This way your habit will stick once you reach your big goal.

Or you can start like this, but I would recommend that you start a bit smaller.

I have a few resolution; habits I want to have in 2021: (My big goals)

  • Write 3 000 words a day
  • Write 3 blogs a weak
  • Learn 30 words/phrases of Spanish a day
  • Read a book a weak
  • Meditate 1 hour a day

Starting Monday, 24 days before New Years, I will start making these habits a reality through using micro habits.

Do you have any new year resolutions? How will you achieve them?

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My exams are finished, I am proud to say that I am finally finished with Grade10 and am looking forward to next year.

Thanks for everyone’s support and motivation, it means more than I can explain.

Hope all is good and well.

Have an amazing weekend!!

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