Well, this is an interesting topic, coming from a 17-year old that hasn’t even started living life completely on her own terms, but hear me out anyhow, I’ll keep it short and sweet.
I don’t regret anything, not past mistakes, past relationships, past actions, or even encounters.
Believe me, my face still gets red with embarrassment when I think about some past events, but I still don’t regret it, I wouldn’t want to change a thing.
And then there are times that I do regret my actions or words, but only for a short while. I quickly wash them off with these beliefs…
Three beliefs I have that keeps me from feeling regret:
🌸 The belief that everything happens for a reason.
Anything we experience has a reason behind it, even though we might not always see the reason right away. Only years later you discover that it made you stronger somehow, or that it changed your thinking for the better.
Life is designed to push us forward, and sometimes uses setbacks to launch us forward with greater might and speed.
🌸 The belief that I can’t change my past.
(however, I have the power to change my present and future)
It already happened, and it happened the way it did, and unless I build a time machine to travel back in time, there is no use fretting over what could have been or shouldn’t have been said or done.
🌸 The belief that I was acting/speaking accordingly to my emotions and thoughts at that time.
It’s only after doing, thinking, or saying certain things that we realize that we shouldn’t have said what we’ve said, think those thoughts, or act on our emotions in the way we did. Guess what, it’s too late now… yet we have the choice to be better.
If I had to go back in time and relive my life, I would do everything exactly the same, it made me into the woman I am becoming and into the young lady that I am.
Why regret something you have no power of changing?
I hope you enjoyed today’s post.
Much love and abundance. I hope you have a blessed day.
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