What I have learned from WordPress in a month.

This is just a quick list of the things I learned the hard and easy way, (directly and indirectly).

  • Here are incredible people with amazing blogs.
  • Stay consistent with posting
  • The support system is wow, just wow.
  • Support others -without expecting anything back.
  • Reading the comments of other posts allows you to see different views/perspectives from other people and get to know people better.
  • Always respond positively to negative comments. It’s okay if someone doesn’t agree or like your blog, you cannot satisfy everyone.
  • Don’t write for followers, views, and likes (unless it is your fulltime job of course). Write because you want to write, write for yourself and nobody else. The right people will eventually find your blog and they will stay and support you with every single post.
  • Don’t follow for a follow. If they ask, check out their blog but if it is not your cup of tea, move on or you will be stuck with content you don’t actually like. I also think it is better to just do your thing and let followers find you naturally than it is to ask for someone to follow you.
  • Be unapologetically you in everything you do. If you want to add something, do it, it is your blog after all.
  • Build others up and never tear them down.
  • Don’t take offense to comments that differ from your blog, that is the best way to see other perspectives. Have an open mind and interact with them, this is also one of the quickest ways to make friends.
  • Have an open mind when reading other people’s posts as well.
  • Interact with/ Reply to, people when they comment. Even if it’s something simple, at least acknowledge their comments.
  • When commenting on something, mean it.
  • I’m sorry, but I hate it when someone likes every single blog post of mine without even reading/viewing it. I never like something I haven’t read or haven’t read a bit from.
  • (A like without a read feels like I don’t deserve the like.)
  • The effort put into a blog is seen from a mile away, so put that little bit of extra time in.
  • Don’t take everything so personally.
  • Make friends not enemies.
  • Understand that what people write and how people write is their way of expressing themselves, it is their perspectives and beliefs. Again, be open-minded.
  • Don’t live in a box, step outside your comfort zone. If there is something new you want to do, try it out.
  • Gratefulness and appreciation will get you a long way internally and externally. Truly be grateful for every single like, follow, and comment.
  • Don’t overdo yourself. Take a break if needed. Also, watch out to not extend your break for too long.
  • Blogging isn’t that hard and complicated.

Chatting techniques.

  • Find each other on Instagram and chat there, it is quick and easy.
  • Create a private post and share the password with the person you wish to chat with over email and then chat in the comment section.
  • Chat using your email, though this takes a lot of time especially when your notifications are off like mine because of too many subscriptions.
  • Continue chatting in whichever comments in a post you started, though this is the most ineffective way.

I’ve made it a month🥂 but I have one more thing left to celebrate…

I have reached 200 followers! And I owe it all to you💞 Thank you for your undivided love and support. Every comment, like, and follow is truly deeply appreciated. Thank you for making this possible.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart💕


  1. Congratulations on completing one month and on 200 followers..

    I think we all can relate to each of the points you have mentioned…

    You have made a great list..

    Happy for you…🤗🤗

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  2. I am so overwhelmed by everything you’ve mentioned as lessons for two reasons; because they’re so true, genuine and straightforward and because I can already tell they’re going to help so many others.
    Congratulations on 200 followers! I feel privileged to be one among them!
    Stay safe, stay you!❤️

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  3. Wow 200 in a month is awesome. I guess quality posts and blogs speak for themselves. Great list you have here, and it was an enjoyable read. Thanks for sharing!

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  4. Your manifesto facts on blogging have value. When I comment on blogs *&* If I can’t leave a good comment I don’t leave one at all; because each blogger know if their writing is up to par or not *&* it is akin to college spring break,no student want a test in disagreement when class is out of session. Your post here is priceless!

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  5. So happy to hear that😄😁
    Thank you very much. You certainly are off great help, this comment means more than you know💞

    Much love and abundance. Take care🤗💕

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  6. This social media here is cool. I have had many disagreements on other social medias on subjects and especially Reparation for Slavery *&* the gender gap (women’s Rights, *&* I got banned from LinkedIn *&* Youtube is a war zone of racism *&* those are the social medias that I battle on *&* Facebook is the monster of social medias, but here I can write and comment *&* feel the creativity and innovation!

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  7. Glad that you’ve found a place to be free and to just be yourself💞 WordPress is an amazing place to be apart of.


  8. I am so glad you made that statement and you are right; because writers are a rare and unique nation *&* to myself writing is the best profession or hobby more so than all professions and hobbies!

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  9. Congratulations on reaching 200 followers! It reflects the quality of your content and the effort you have made. I agree with all your tips. This community is a wonderful group. Even though I’m older, I have been able to establish relationships with people of all ages and from different countries. I have learned so much from the community. Thank you and take care.

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  10. Thank you very much, I appreciate it🌸 I am so happy to hear that, I too have already started building great friendships with amazing bloggers, this community is something rare and amazing, something special.

    Much love and abundance. Stay safe.🤗💕

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